Sunday, February 27, 2011

Do You Understand Your Man?

Understanding men in relationships, though many single women will disagree, is quiet simple. The reason is that men, unlike women, are very simple creatures. They have simple needs, desires and are not overtly emotional, like women.

Still, many women find themselves in a situation where they never get a call after the first date or where they have been in a series of broken relationships, or where they have been dumped by men without any warning or where women in long relationships are left waiting for that marriage proposal, which never comes their way.

If you too are a woman, who has faced a familiar situation and want to know a few magical tips on understanding men in relationships, then below is something very interesting what you are looking for.

Main Tips on How to Understand Men Better

It is human nature that we always want the things which we do not have. And once we have them, our desire fades away. Men are pretty much the same.

So, a useful tip for all single women is to remain a mystery for the man, especially in the initial phases of the relationship. It is a bad idea to tell a man how crazy you are for him or how much you want him. Let him confess his feelings to you initially, be slightly detached and give him opportunity to miss you. Once he makes the first move, you can tell him whatever you want to.

Men like challenges in life and love to 'chase' after a woman. So why deny him his fun? Be slightly unpredictable, once in a while. Do not always agree to what he says. Have your own opinions in life. Be very clear about your needs and expectations and do not overlook them, even if the man asks you to. A modern, assertive and challenging woman is much more appealing to a man than a woman who is always complying with her man's wishes.

Men do not like women who cling to them. Men don’t like women who makes huge emotional demands on the man, who constantly looks for his attention and who is always trying to please them. So, all women who are keen on understanding men in relationships should know that never ever sound desperate to a man as it is bound to turn him off. The more a woman clings to a man, the more he will try to distance himself from her.

Tips on Understanding Men in Love
When a man is in love, he will be at his best behavior around the woman he loves. He will do anything to keep the woman's attention to himself. He will try to know about the likes and dislikes of the woman, will try to understand her better and be very protective of her too.

Men in love may sometimes act in a very weird manner. He may act detached, all because he is fearful that he is falling in love with one particular woman. At the same time, he can become a little possessive of the woman he loves, because he fears that the woman might leave him for someone else.

Once a man is truly committed, he will introduce his woman to all his friends, family and everyone he knows. This is a man's way of showing that a woman now belongs to him. Although marriage is something that makes most men jittery, but when the right woman comes along, men no longer feel that way and are ready for commitment.

For understanding men in marriage, and to make her marriage successful, there are two things that a woman should never forget. Firstly, all men like to act as providers for their family and have an inherent need to be respected, trusted and looked after by their wives. Secondly, men just love sex and can not do without it. And for men sex is a way of feeling emotionally connected to the woman they love.

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